In a world where social media influencers flaunt flawless physiques and glossy lives, it's easy to succumb to the pressure of looking good. Beneath the surface lies a vital question: are we sacrificing our authenticity and happiness by prioritizing appearance over being true to ourselves?
We live in an era where filters and Photoshop reign supreme, there is a constant bombardment of airbrushed images and meticulously curated lifestyles that blur the lines between reality and illusion. When we start striving for external perfection, we find ourselves in a perpetual race to meet societal standards. In this relentless pursuit of perfection, we risk losing sight of our unique personalities, passions, and authentic self.
Of course, there is nothing wrong with looking good. The key lies in finding a healthy balance of nurturing our bodies, minds, and souls, rather than obsessing over external validation. When we prioritize self-care, self-love, and personal growth, our inner radiance shines through.
Thankfully, societal perceptions are gradually shifting, and the definition of beauty is broadening. Diversity in appearance and personality is being celebrated like never before. The world is awakening to the realization that genuine beauty lies not in conformity, but in the kaleidoscope of unique individuals who boldly embrace their differences.
We all seek happiness and ultimately, real happiness is possible when we live true to our authentic selves. While focusing on the external world helps us gather information and explore our passions, it is when we start embracing our quirks and flaws, that we step into the journey to self-discovery and real happiness. The path to self-discovery requires resilience and courage to resist social pressures, peel away the layers and unearth our authentic selves. And in doing so, we unlock an unparalleled sense of liberation and fulfilment that surpasses any temporary validation.
I have blundered through this struggle and experienced the stress and transience of this illusion. Luckily, nearly 2 decades ago, I awakened to my authentic self and from thereon, committed to living true. Over the years, I have found my balance between looking good and feeling good. Now, I enjoy looking good and nurturing my inner self. It is possible for each one of us to break free, find our balance and bask in the brilliance of our true selves.
"The most beautiful thing you can wear is confidence in your own skin." Blake Lively
